Flirting Tips for Guys

Recommended Men's Attraction and Seduction GuideSo you’ll be out on the prowl tonight, and your goal is to pick-up a sexy chick at the bar, the party or singles night.   You know there will be hot girls where you’re going.  The anticipation alone gives you both a chub and heart palpitations at the same time!  But then you think back to the crash-and-burn episodes you’ve had before.  What are you going to do different tonight or this weekend that you gets you at least one phone number, or even more?  Go unprepared, and you’ll most likely go home and just jack off again.   So, before we get into flirting tips, first things first:  Get prepared!

  • Get Groomed! Women notice the little details.  Trim your fingernails and clean UNDER them.   Manicures are inexpensive and well worth it.  Showing women that you care enough to take care of yourself shows them that you’ll take your time taking care of their needs as well.  Also, smell good, but don’t overdo it on the cologne.  This can be a total turn-off and give women the impression that you’re trying too hard.  Just a splash, or spray it upward and walk into the cologne mist.  Of course, make sure your breath is fresh.  Gum is lame, so keep a pack of small but strong mints in your pocket – especially if you’ll be drinking.

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Now, you’ve arrived on the scene … You’ve made your rounds to the people you know already.  That’s good because several women have already been checking you out, and the first impression you’ve given is, you’re not new here and you’re sociable.  If you’re at a party and you don’t know the crowd, then introduce yourself to the host quickly, and get them introducing you to others right away.  Whatever you do, don’t be shy and isolate yourself in a corner or on the couch with a drink and just “people-watch”.   Remember, you’re already being watched by at least a woman.

Oooh yeah … now there she is!  The one who stands out from the crowd.  She’s your type, and it’s time to make a move.  So get FLIRTING!

  • Clarify – If you are with another woman, (a friend, family member, etc); make sure you clarify your relationship to her with the woman you approach.  A simple introduction, “This is my FRIEND, Samantha,” or “This is my SISTER, Brenda.”  Women like to know what they’re up against and if they think you’re already taken, you won’t get far.
  • Ask Questions! Don’t talk about yourself too much – you’ll appear narcissistic.  Ask her about herself, her work, her family, etc.  And, if you’re shy or unsure what to say, asking questions can help make sure there aren’t awkward silences since most people LOVE talking about themselves.
  • Laughing and Whispering are great ways to flirt.  Whispering can likely get you closer together, REALLY close together.  Laugh sincerely at her jokes, or even better, at yourself.  But don’t put yourself down.  Let her know you have a great sense of humor and that you’re playful.  Whatever you do, don’t play the “asshole” type and pretend like you’re not interested.  That only works in the movies.
  • Pay attention to your body language! (and to hers).  Your actions speak louder than words, so make sure that your non-verbal cues are the right ones to convey that you’re interested.  Some basics are:  making eye contact, smiling, biting or licking your lips, leaning forward, running a hand through your hair, open legged posture, and any “accidental” touching or brushing up against her.  If you’re dancing, don’t be goofy or childish with your moves.  And, don’t body-grind or rub your crotch against her ass too soon.  If she’s very close and turns her back to you and she looks back and smiles – she definitely wants you to move in and grind a little – but be soft.
  • A smile and a glint in your eye are a great way to show a woman you’re interested.  A cheeky grin, (not too wide!), with your eyes slightly squinting is incredibly sexy and leaves no doubt as to your intentions.

Remember that flirting should help put the woman at ease while letting her know you’re interested in getting to know her better.  Don’t overdo it but don’t leave her with any question about your intentions.  You don’t want her to think of you as “just a friend” at the end of the night, because once you fall into that trap, it can be difficult or even impossible to get back out.

Flirting is a lot of fun, and doing it right will at least get her interested in you and get her number.   But you’re looking for more, aren’t you?  Armed with the right awareness, and ALL of the right techniques, you’ll not only be the guy who always gets the hottest girl’s numbers, but also takes them home for the party after the party!   To learn how, check out my absolute TOP RECOMMENDED SOURCE!  It’s jammed packed with the most effective strategies to turn your social and sex life around immediately.  The Secret Ingredient is, it was produced by a woman, just for men.

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